Wednesday, April 14, 2010

aplikasi janji melayu

berbual mengenai apa yang tersurat dan tersirat selalunya membuatkan seseorang berfikir sejenak dengan apa yang telah beliau lakukan. tapi tak semua orang ada perasaan itu untuk berhenti sejenak dan berfikir dengan apa yang telah dinyatakan.

seorang yang beriman, seorang yang menyayangi keluarganya, seseorang yang menyayangi kedua ibu bapanya akan berfikir terlebih dahulu dengan apa yang bakal dilakukan. itu tandanya insan tersebut menyayangi dengan apa yang dia miliki sekarang, akan datang, telah pun dimiliki.

tapi sayangnya tak semua insan begitu, selalunya kesilapan diri sendiri akan ditutupi dengan alasan yang sememangnya dah lapuk dek zaman dan usang dipuput masa yang berlalu "kita manusia, tak lari dari buat kesilapan"

hanya manusia yang selalu berkesilapan saja berani cakap macam tu. diri sendiri tak pernah nak dipersalahkan, yang bengkok tetap nak diluruskan. yang lurus tetap dibiarkan begitu saja. mana ada manusia yang berani tegakan kebenaran zaman sekarang. biar ditekan malah dipijak tetap bertahan.

konsep mana yang kita kutip pakai? demokrasi? tidakkah itu satu sistem yang amat tidak adil? jika 9 dari 10 orang berpakat? manusia yang namanya melayu sering tertipu dengan sistem ini. jika kita berdemokrasi ke arah kebaikan tak salah.

melayu? jika sebut melayu kita sering dikaitkan dengan ikatan perkataan "JANJI", apa yang spesial sangat dengan word ni? jika betul seorang itu betul mungkir janji, tak apalah nak cakap dia JANJI MELAYU kan.

situasi 1;
A : B jom tengok wayang kat Time Square petang ni, pukul 3
B : ok ja, petang ni kita jumpa kat sana.

3petang, A menunggu B yang masih belum muncul2. jam ditangan dah pukul 4ptg....adakah ini janji melayu???

situasi 2;
C : ok D sok ptg lepas kelas kita kelas tu sama2
D : ok C

keesokannya, C ni rushing sikit banyak kerja nak kena buat, dah la minggu depan exam. so dia tak mau buang masa yang tinggal. jadi dalam kul 11.30pg C bersama E ke kedai yang dia nak pegi dengan D. pegi kedai sulaman. C nak sulam nama kat baju team futsal dia, C takut tak sempat. C tak tau yang sulam nama tu leh siap cepat. jadi dia bersama E tunggu sampai siap. sebelum kul 2 C dah sampai umah coz dia dah berjanji dengan D nak pegi kedai tu jugak. sampai umah D dapat tau C dah pegi dulu, dan D touching. C dah cakap janji kul 2 kan, coz kelas pagi td C tak pegi. D ada kelas time tu. hm...D cakap C ni cam JANJI MELAYU??? di mana JANJI MELAYU tu?

9 comments:

hansuke said...

salam.

aku pon tak berapa setuju dengan istilah "janji melayu" tu, sebab kalu aku berjanji takda pon macam istilah seperti yang orang duk heboh2kan tu. aku tepati janji seperti yang Islam syorkan. kalu tak dapat datang kena bagitau awal @ cancel janji baru orang lain tak angin.

walaubagaimanapon, dalam kes C dan D tu, D tak perlu la touching macam budak-budak sekolah, bukannya C dah pon mungkir janji dia. aku yakin jika C ingin pergi bersama D kerana telah berjanji maka C kenalah tunaikan janji beliau. jika C tidak menepati janji misalnya, baru la boleh kita katakan C telah mungkir janji. tapi dalam kes ni, bukankah D yang tidak mahu pergi bersama C setelah tahu yang C dah pon pergi? tapi ada ke C kata dia tak nak pergi untuk menemani si D? (merajuk sesama lelaki amatlah buruk, sungguh bersifat kanak-kanak si D tu).

tapi dalam konteks untuk menyatakan "JANJI MELAYU"..aku sangat tak setuju malah menetang sama sekali, sebab tak semua melayu sama. tengok juga sapa yang mengeluarkan statement 'janji melayu' ni, adakah dia juga seorang melayu atau bukan melayu? memang tak patut jika sesiapa saja yang mengeluarkan statement tersebut.

pesanan aku untuk C. buat bodoh saja. jika C rasa dia benar maka dia adalah benar. tak perlu melayan sifat kebudak-budakkan si D. kalu aku tahu sapa si D aku sekeh je kepala dia, pastu cakap "nak merajuk masuk gua" haha~

wallahua'lam.

sapek said...

jgn cakap je afif.
kalau jantan,meh sekeh pale ak.
ak tunggu.
ingat taw,ak tunggu.
tak bwat, ak title untuk ko.
kepada C, dulu kene kutuk.
pastu masuk bawah ketiak dia plak.
ap ce?

Amar san said...

hansukeroma, jangan sekeh kepale aku.. aku rasa akulah D itu.. touching sungguh diriku hari ni.. ni yg nak masuk gua ni.. tp aku takde gua, tanah adela.. Haha XD

hansuke said...

haha.

aku state balik ayat-ayat aku:

"kalu aku tahu sapa si D aku sekeh je kepala dia"

obvious la aku gurau je. maaf la jika ada yang terasa.

sekarang aku nak tanya, ko ke si D tu? ko emo lebih ni kenapa?

"kalau jantan,meh sekeh pale ak.
ak tunggu.
ingat taw,ak tunggu.
tak bwat, ak title untuk ko."

apa semua ni? belagak macam iblis. ingat asal usul kita bro, kita ni hanya tanah yang diletakkan roh kedalamnya. siapa la kita jika bukan Allah yang Maha pencipta yang memberi nyawa dan kehidupan. jangan terikut-ikut sifat iblis yang dilaknat tu. jangan cepat marah dan melenting sebab itu yang iblis mahukan.

banyakkan beristigfar la bro. banyakkan ingat Tuhan. jangan cepat melenting dengan perkara remeh temeh.

maaf kemaafan diutamakan dalam islam. jika aku ada buat ko terasa aku minta maaf. kalu sampai putus silaturahim sebabkan benda kecik, senang je iblis gelak kat kita sebab mereka dah menang.

wallahua'lam.

Anonymous said...

loll..what's this??all of u shows how so immature u guys can be...
duhhh...
from my view...
I think hansuke can just stop saying something that how bad is D..n somehow u just support C without have asked D how D may feel after he thought C probably wait for him n just go to the shop as plan..

maybe hansuke wont feel a thing if C did the same thing to him as he cool with it

but I maybe be someone like D as I dont like people set the promise as want to do something or go somewhere but turn out he did/went with someone else without telling me first??of course what's the point repeating the same action plus did/went with someone else first after set up with me first

by the way...yes I do agree D using false title as "janji melayu"...cuz I see it only as someone is not puntual

but I do hate C and hansuke state D touching in this situation
copy from hansuke comment:
"banyakkan beristigfar la bro. banyakkan ingat Tuhan. jangan cepat melenting dengan perkara remeh temeh."

this situation is remeh temeh

peace.no hurt feeling.just a free writing.

Amar san said...
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hansuke said...

mecrofay:

thanks for the opinion. everyone is etitle to it. no doubt about that.

this would be last of my comment about this topic here and hopefully no one would even be thinking of judging this situation in a wrong way.

okay, let me make things clear to you and any readers who are trying to be smart and comment without knowing the real situation first.

the real story is this:
C and D had promised to go at Embroidery shop (kedai sulam) together. D wanted to embroid his shirt and C wanted to embroid his futsal team's shirts, they planned to go at 2pm.

so the point here is simple, they both want to embroided shirt. but D had classes and only will be free at 2pm. so, C went to servey the shops around 9am thinking he would still go with D at 2pm as he already promised. (sebab orang islam tak baik mungkir janji).

after some time C found a shop who offered a reasonable price. around 11am C went back home and ask E to go with him and bring all the futsal shirt along.

unexpectedly the Embroiding took a lot quicker than C thought and around noon, C and E went back home as all the shirt were done embroided.

at the same time D was home. D had said,
"i thought you said we were going to go together", C said, "yeah, but i've done all the embroiding to all the shirt, but lets still go together at 2pm"

then D took it personally and went sulking and refusing to go with C at 2pm. C offered D as he still want to go with him as promised (3 kali dia ofer). as we all know D was already sulking.

later that day, D posted something on facebook "janji melayu" as saying that C had break his promised.

also later that day C had posted this post stating his opinion on the statement of janji melayu and he didn't break any promised because it was D that refused his offer.

so for anyone reading what i have commented would know that D should just went with C at 2pm as promised like grown men would do. not just assume that C had break his promised and did not even want an explaintion from C. for me C did not break his promised because it was D that who refused to go. (trust me, i was there to be the witness when this situation took place).

that's why i thought this thing was really 'remeh temeh' because it was so childish i even made a joke about the 'sekeh' thing.

now everyone knows the truth, hopefully that D would realise his mistakes and not spread rumors which would lead to 'fitnah', and everyone already knows that Allah SWT does not like fitnah.

wallahua'lam.

chuba.cuba said...

"Amar san said...
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April 17, 2010 12:16 AM "

ape nih.
i like~
haha

Amar san said...

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Haha, blogspot pun kata aku hensem, hahaha.